There are some unusual things about me. I laugh when I think of these moments. I try to learn from these things too.
1) I make repetitive mistakes. I think I don’t learn by mistakes.I keep making same kind of mistakes. it really shows my immaturity.
2) I trust people very easily. During engineering , one of my friend cheated me when he stole my bank pass book and withdrew 20k from my SBI bank account. I was fortunate that I had got sense about this and I had taken an immediate action and had locked my account.But due to SBI people’s fault he withdrew 20k from my account. I made a lot of effort with the help of dean and other professors and I had got my money back from bank. I still trust people very easily. some people are very nice but some people take advantage of me , my simplicity.I think I should be more professional in my life.
3) I proposed a girl eight times. Sometimes I wonder how did I do that? I think it needs a lot of guts and courage to tell ur feelings and propose to a girl. I did eight times to the same girl :).
4) I asked a stranger girl weird thing when I asked her “why do U smoke ” ? I had literally stopped breathing that time. But thankfully she did not slap me . She appreciated my query :). Even I can not belive but it happened.
5) I can not live without music but I can not sing :(. I had dreamt to be a singer but could not do that. I still have hope for it :). ha ha ha ha ha ha
6) If some people ignore my strong points given on a topic during any conversation. I ignore their points too .
Some other such things are left. I will keep updating whenever those things come in my mind.
I too show the trait mentioned in point 2.
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I think things and people change with time. Myself five years back when came to b’lore was totally different than what I am today !!
i love music and though can not sing I still do !! (and torture ppl around
how are you doing ?
Hiiii Dilip,
How r u doing?
Some unusual tings. WoWw. Thatz a fantastic list !!
And I like ur spirit & candor.
1. I m particular abt not repeating my mistakes. I feel repeating my mistakes is a sin, while i m open 4 new mistakes. hehe
2. I trust none more than myself. I take a lotta time to trust people n make frens. I m happy with less frens but quality frens.
3. awwww, 8 times is marvellous. a man needs to hav lotta guts n u hav it. Its chocute, wonder wat was her reaction each time u proposed her.
4. y does she smoke? smoking is soooo tch tch
5. Music brings soul alive, well u shud try singing. its high time u know. hehe
6. way 2 go dude.
Hey Dilip, vl come back again to chk out on ur updates.
Love,Live,Laughter
Lust4Life
Saaya @ Thanks for ur comments. Even u show some similar trends like me. Aleast I feel I can not change myself in some way. There is something I can not change myself. I sing songs in bathroom only. My family make a lot of fun if I sing in front of them :). I think most of the people like music . It freshes mind and soul.
Lust4Life @ Thanks so much for ur comments.
1)Nice to know U r very matured , down to earth and practical in life (I can sense from ur comments here). I really like this.
2)Yes I think u r abs rite about quality friends. I think those r the people u can count on them anytime.
3) When I proposed the same girl again and again eight times. In beginning She said no but I felt she is interested in me but due to some constraints she is saying no. So I asked the reasons behind it but unfortunately she never discussed her issues/concerns with me candidly. But I keep asking her again and again to reconsider her decision.but finally she showed some cavalier attitudes towards me and said big NO to me. I still have a very soft corner for her in my heart. she was very nice and sweet. But I really wonder how did I propose the same girl eight times ? Now I can never do to anyone else ..not even once.
4) smoking is really bad and I hate it.
5) I think music relieves mind and soul both.
6) I am working on my this weakness
Hi Dilip,
Even i trust on anyone easily , its my weak point too .
And u no we should learn from past , but then also i trust easily , i dont no why …..
Regarding ur point no 3 sometimes not everything is in our hand , so we have to forget it and move on.
And i like old songs “hindi old songs” wat abt u?
Hiii Dilip,
‘Now I can never do to anyone else ..not even once.’ This line of urs really bothers me. Its upsetting and can damage u.
Love makes us go crazy and letz us do some weird things which might be the best to do in those moments. But getting disheartened is not the attitude. The past shud not interfere in the present and future. Keep ur eyes open and be ready to welcome that fresh flower to blossom ur life.
Letz not stay in the closed doors or we shall miss some of the best moments that life has to offer us. U might not want to miss a ting.
Oops I said too many things ! Its all coz of that simple line. Jus my views. U can choose to ignore them..
Hi Nitu , Thanks for ur comments. I agree there is something for which we can not do anything. That’s beyond our control.
hi lust4life @ I absolutely agree with u that past shd never interfere with ur present and future. I am trying my best to move on. but may be the hurt is too deep to recover. I know things will change over the time. So I think I deserve better things in my life.I think I said “Now I can never do to anyone else ..not even once…” came at the spur of moment. I was feeling low and was quite disturbed. people say time is the best healer…ur views r practical and good :).
Hi Dilip,
I really dont hav a clue abt ur past.
But all I can say is tat I have been there n seen it all.
I exactly know ur feelings. I was pathetic if u had met me sometime back vn i started to blog.
Its upto us to decide if v really want to move on. Thatz when the new journey begins and there is no looking back.
Sometimes the pleasure of those moments getz mixed up with the bitterness and v dont want to part 4m those feelings. v find a strange comfort in them.
I am lking fwd for ur new posts, u know wat i m talking abt.
Hi Lust4life ,
Sometimes I know what is wrong but still I just can’t help myself. But I think I should be practical in life. And now I believe that there are a lot of other good things in life to enjoy and keep ur life enjoyable.
U said right that “Its upto us to decide if v really want to move on.” . I decide to move on but sometimes I become helpless..But I have improved myself a lot over the period. I think I was possessive and emotionally weak. I am a bit better now..
humm..good discussions over here. IMO keep ur hands open and let the sand flow…after all one can not force another soul to fall in love right ? but if you look at the other side of it ..persisitance is grt virtue ..it can make things possible which look impossible initially. Again it takes two for tango …so let it go whatever is over. You know they say “When one door closes; we keep looking at closed door ; and we miss to notice the new doors opened for us”
Bottom line is be happy that you could find sm1 whom you liked so much…who knows time will get you someone who will love you more than you do !! Keep those fingers crossed !! Amen !!
and thanks for adding me to your blogroll
one correction you need to change the url to “http://saayaa.blogspot.com” ( Notice that extra ‘a’ !! )
Saaya @ u said “after all one can not force another soul to fall in love right ?”..is very right. kash yeh dil bhi samajh pata is baat ko. I always have hope :). u r welcome
. I updated ur url .
thanks a tonn dilip !! the pleasure is all mine to be added to the blogroll :))
yeah hang in there …ummid pe duniya kayam hai
btw in one of the post i was asking u what other options u have kept open other than IIMB?
haan Ummid par duniya kayam hai
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my dream of getting into IIMB this year got shattered.
NowI am just exploring all the options that I can pursue. I wanna puruse an MBA so I am thinking of GMAT. I can think of ISB or US university for MBA. But I have not finalized any thing right now. I am just analyzing everything and will take decisions over giving some serious thoughts over all possible options and interests.
howz ur life going ? Are u an MBA graduate?
Hi Lust4life
i really like this statement “Keep ur eyes open and be ready to welcome that fresh flower to blossom ur life.” really i mean it
U no after reading this statement anyone can decide to leave the past and start new life.
Dilip,
love is blind
Jaan ke bhi anjaan hota hai.
Hi Nitu , ya in some sense ..u r rite .. how r u doing ?
Nope I m not . I might consider MBA but not on campus. now too lazy to study
you did not try other options like Narsee Monjee , KG Somaiyaa , IIFT, MDI, IMT or IIM’s ? but if you can afford ISB is good option IMO !
Hi Dilip,,,
I am fine my MCA third sem exams will start from 2nd june
and from 31st may to 19th june i will be on leave.
At least from some time i will be away from office work
Saaya@ I wrote CAT , FMS , XLRI last year. I had got GD/PI from IIMB , IIMK and FMS. But unfortunately could not convert any
. I really don’t know what went wrong :(. I was expecting final call from IIMB coz my GD/PI was damn good but could not get into it. I did not write any other exams beside this.I am an IIT graduate so I thought of brand equity while applying to B-schools. So applied to only IIMs , FMS , XLRI. I think other MBA schools will not add much value to my current profile. Now I need to plan again 
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Hi Nitu,
Good to know ablut u. Break from office work is always good :).u r working. U r doing correspondence course for MCA or weekend classes?
Hi Dilip,
I m doing correspondence course.
Hi Nitu ,
That’s cool :). All the best for 3rd sem exam
Yup other isntitutes wont add much to your profile.
Thanks Dilip
Hi all ,
I will be off for blogging for sometime. I joined an investment bank in mumbai. And I am haiving quite hectic schdeules along with a lot of restrictions on access of personal mail and blog sites. will be back soon.